Dawn - your help is greatly appreciated and your words are very wise.
I'm still struggling dealing with her atm - she is best described as an alien. This is the mother of my children and I do not know her.
We just had my daughters birthday party and she was good but then she said she is going out Thursday, Friday, Saturday nights but will be home to get ready for my daughters extended family party on Sunday.
She is now in her room doing the funny voice, laugh and good old "pet-pet" comments.
She says she wants a seperation which I think is a good idea - I'd like her to leave but she won't.
I'm really thinking all posters on here that keep putting up with this are amazing.
Someone wrote you feel like a doormat at times and thats how I feel. I mean what sane person puts up with what is going on and I bet it gets worse.
As for not talking to anyone I find that very hard. Its like I need to let it out.
She cannot be sane and I know what you are saying about being committed to marriage but my wife is not there atm.
Anyway got to go because she wants the computer. If I argue it just makes it worse (I think).
