We went for almost a month without talking or seeing each other. I started to enjoy myself, and even went on a few dates. My wife definitely knew I was moving on.
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It wasn't until she knew I had started to move on that she even seemed interested in anything that had to do with me.
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She then started to call me for no reason at all, several times a day I would get texts like "just wanted to say hi". I could tell that she was having second thoughts.
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Instead of jumping back into trying to save our marriage. I have decided to take it slow and not rush back into things so that i don't end up where I just came from.
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I have been on several dates with my W, and have even been intimate on a few occasions. I have not let my guard down completely, and neither has she, but I'm in a better place with my relationship then I thought was possible a month ago.
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I just wanted to give an update as to where my situation was and now is, and hope my story can bring some hope to others that feel their marriage can't be saved.
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I'm not out of the wood by no means. I just think I'm heading down the path of reconciliation.
Congratulations. This is how it is done. Hanging in there doesn't work. Letting go and having social interaction does. Stay on this path.
