I think now when counselling happens I might raise how unstable she has been and how unrealistic her assesments are of me.

Its my daughters birthday and we are watching a slide show of all our family moments. My wife has had a real good time within our life together and yet now she is telling me I am controlling & dominating.

It is simply not true - my parents, her parents & the kids know this. My daughter has been upset with my wife because of how she is acting.

Its upsetting the lies she has been saying. I wonder how everyone will view this in the future.

As for the questions I didn't know her as a teenager - she is acting that way now and I have never seen this before.

I hope it doesn't get any worse but your right. I think it will get worse and I think the kids are the ones who will suffer.

It is actually horrendous. My once stable and sane wife is now a n alien.