At the end of another day and once again time to go home.
As H is unpredictable at present and as I don't know if there is an OW or not, have taken the step to protect myself in any event, by opening a bank account in my name so I can at least protect my salary if he decided to do anything with our joint account.
That hurt so much to do that but I felt it a necessary step to give me some sense of security amidst the upheaval and uncertainty that I am feeling at present.