When do I get to not be someone who's getting divorced?
Good answer A&K! heh heh.
Seriously though, this certainly is an ugly time for several of us here. It's kind like another limbo. M is already over and we're waiting for the red tape before we can get our separate spaces. In the meantime, $ and arrangements are difficult.
So when is the bulk of the "getting divorced" over? I'd sure like to know. Seem like we have to point our ship in a direction and start moving. Maybe sometime we wake up and realized how far we've sailed. I think it's going to be a slow and gradual process. Our strength will help us move forward. Lack of it will leave us stuck.
Even so I'm expecting to have "divorce moments" throughout the rest of my life. As long as there are kids, there will be some reason to be in same space as W: soccer games, graduations, weddings, grandkids, etc. And they thought they were getting rid of us. Fun stuff.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
