sgctxok, thanks for the feedback..odd I never thought of him as non committal, more of a self centered person who doesnt know how to put others first. didnt come from a family that taught that..but that could be a possibility.
household stuff was never an issue, he is a clean freak and does more than his fair share.. the big issue is .. when he comes home and I am still here it will be very cold in this house. He is an easy going person until he decides hes DONE.. I saw him interact with his 1st wife.. and he has also been distant to me in the past. he is short, gruff and angry when he is forced to interact with someone he feels anger towards..
I am going to TRY.. yes that is the best I can do for now.. TRY to motivate to GAL and let my obsession go..I have 2 months until he comes back (mid oct) to prepare for the freeze.. The group on DB is defintely helping me see that I cant Make him do anything and obsessing over what I can not control is only making it worse for me and the M...
M - 45 1st marriage H - 45 2nd M -T - 14 yrs M - 13 yrs S - due to job location since 1/08 B - 7/6/2009 EA revealed -9/3/2009 began 6/09 E/A end 9/09 piercing: since 10/09 long distance
