"I love you, you're my best friend. I don't know what's wrong with me"
"A divorce would be a clean slate"
"Nothing is forever (meaning divorce), true love never dies"
"Don't you want me to be here because I *want* to be here and not because I *have* to be here?"
"I'm tired of living for everyone one else"
"Well, sure, I can tell you've changed. But I'm afraid it will go back to how it used to be."
"I'm a good person- I would give up my life for a stranger" (huh. but you can't commit to the person you say you love. how odd.)
"Well YOU let me get away with this. You gave me way to much rope" (blame the victim)
"There's a big part of me that hopes we work out" (what?! 'hopes'?)
"I can't picture you *not* being in my life." (ie-'can we be friends?')
Oh, and be sure to sprinkle a lot of "for now" and "right now"s around. Like "I just feel like this what I want to do, for now". This implies hope for the future.
OH! I almost forgot the best one of all. "We should divorce now because if we are in this same spot a year from now, you could get fed up, decide you hate me and then all would be lost."
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
