just caught up on your thread. I am happy that you met a new crush. I also agree that it will do wonders to 'show' you what your true feelings are towards your H. I certainly hope that the new guy's friendship with you will continue.
My take on your H's attitude....he is just upset that he can not have his cake and eat it too.
My take on crush's pulling back....(this is with not knowing his stich) is that he may be on a roller coaster of emotions. For some people the idea of starting over would scare them back into a darkened room. Maybe you have 'shown' him that he is still a desirable person and he is dealing with his own emotions that you may have stirred up in him.
Either way....practice some of the DB techniques with the crush, don't persue alot. Take your time.
By the way, how did your son react to the way his dad was treating you and him that day?
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
