Stay strong and once again DONT let YOUR EMOTIONS CONTROL YOU. Allow yourself time to feel the pain then cool down and FIGHT for your FAMILY if that is what you choose.
Remember your W is in a fog right now. Like you have said for the last 8 mons. "For better or worse...." this is her worst. Show her that you will help her through this by thinking RATIONALLY and do what's best for your family. Now is the time to figure out your NUTS and set BOUNDARIES.
Hold the line.
PMA
Did you read the email?!?!!? She is a fat pig whore that I will never share a bed or touch again.
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13