WAW wants to get togeather?

[bluerain]

You should go ask puppy to come over and check out your thread. Maybe you should tell her again.

I dont want to be my H's friend. If he doesnt want to fix what he did, I dont want to be his friend. My friends are people who are accountable for their mistakes. They dont do the things that he did.

How about telling her that you understand that she is hurt. But you dont feel like you are ready to talk to her just yet. I would go look at other threads and see how other people have dealt with this.