How about these?

"I'm sick and tired of being the perfect W/H and mum/dad. It's time I took care of me".

"Sure, you're trying hard now, but I've been trying hard for a long, long time. It's too little, too late".

"He's a good guy and we were friends who found a connection. We never meant for this to happen".

"It's not about him, or you, it's about me".

"I never thought I could fall in love with someone else, but it happened".

"Stop being so nice, you're just trying to make me feel guilty".

"I don't want to die tomorrow and think that THIS is all there is to life". (frequuently accompanied by "I deserve more".)

"I have goals and want to do so many things. I just don't want to do them with you any more".


Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.