Wife knows that I mean she has said all along she wants a divorce and is only agreed to a 90 day in house separation, but says she intends to pursue her affair and even if that doesn't work out other relationships too as part of her journey. They wife says, "Yes I see very slim hope for us." I say "I know what you think and I respect it . . .
You RESPECTher adultery??? Why?
Validation is one thing ("I can understand why this would feel right to you ..."), but telling her you RESPECT her cheating on you is just nauseating, I'm sorry.