My situation #10

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A week and a half ago my W found out from her L that I am keeping her dad in the psychological evaluation related to child custody. So it got very messy around here. Nothing I couldn't handle, and nothing that threw me off too far.

She's been in this mode of not doing anything together with the kids so I've had them to myself quite a bit. It's all great with me because I really enjoy the time I get with my kids.

She had a meeting with her L on Saturday and she stayed over her mom's house Sat night and didn't come home till bed time last night. She called me yesterday afternoon to see if I was still going Kayaking at 5pm and I told her it was cancelled. She said she was just going to stay at her mom's house and would be home later on in the evening. I said that was fine. Then she said they were going to look at houses. I asked, "You're looking for a house?" Then she quickly followed up with... "Just for fun and something to do." Of course I know it was BS and she actually slipped it out. I had to laugh inside. I didn't say anything about it and just got off the phone.

I'm not sure what the next thing is but the ball is in her court to make a move so I'll just keep continuing on until something changes.

I got home from work today and saw her car wasn't here. I went inside and she had left a message on the phone saying they were at her parents house and she wasn't sure what time they would be home. I knew something was up because normally she calls my cell phone to let me know what's going on.

When I went into the closet in the bathroom I noticed my kids' alergy medicine wasn't there so it dawned on me she was probably going to call later on to tell me they were going to sleep there.

I took a nap later on and got up around 7:30 and noticed she had called at 7:00 and left a message saying they were going to stay there tonight.

She's up to something but I'm not sure what. I guess it will show itself in time. Other than that, I can't waste time thinking about it.