No, Ashlee.... I'd love to say that your perspective was all wrong, but I think you are right. He doesn't want a wife, he wants a sex toy. Bunny, there's a line between having sex with him when you might not 100% want to (which is probably a good thing, now and then, as long as it works both ways... which I am guessing isn't the case) and being coerced into a bj just to get him to leave you alone. He's has way crossed that line. Clearly with him no doesn't come close to meaning no. Once you let him get away with it once, he is just going to keep pushing, and be even more angry when you won't.
I agree with Wifey, it's all got to come out in MC. He is going to be really disappointed, I think. Because I can't see any C thinking what he wants from you is ok.
I agree with giving this a try, so that you can feel that you've left no stone unturned. But a fairly large part of me wants to scream at you that he is still just trying to use you, and you should run as fast as you can!
