I'm just back from a full day of appointments. I'm brain mush, but LOVE LOVE LOVE what I'm reading about you taking the FEAR out of S, and showing H that he can't hang that over you. It's only natural to hold onto the fear of him blurting something out to the kids. They're your kids, for goodness sake! You can never give them back the innocence of being raised in a two-parent, stable home. Once you drop that bomb on them, they're in a whole new category. (Not that it ends up being bad, but you can't go back.)
Soooooooo way to go my WEDGIE friend! I'm thinkin' a new vibrator is in the works for me, TOO! Everybody's doin' it! LOL
PS - Cat... I totally relate to your last post. I don't really have anyone to talk to in RL, either. My BFF knows a lot of it, but not all, and I don't keep her abreast of the sitch, as we all do here... Another BFF knew some of it a year ago, but how do you tell her you're STILL trying to make this work, AM I NUTS? I have some new friends, too. I'm going to go to your thread. Kind of reminds me of sorority days! B*tchin' about boys, laughs, vibrators... Hope I don't get hazed again. LOL
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
