Depending on most states and given the length of your marriage you may be allowed some form of alimony/etc. for a set period - especially if you don't have other work or degrees.
Smart to do contacting an attorney. My W hired one who gave her the "Oh we'll hit him hard and he'll roll over spiel" which made her feel empowered as though she could just take me to the cleaners where I'd get absolutely nothing and have to pay her ridiculous amounts of money.
Don't get suckered into filing for a D unless you feel it is imminent and your interests would be best protected by filing in your home state.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
