Thank you DCBHM! I really appreciate your insight.
I would never cheat on my husband as long as we are still married...I love him too much. Not just that, but I am at a point where I cannot even imagine having feelings for or being physical with another man. It wouldn't be fair to anyone in the situation.
I have contacted an attorney, just because I don't want to have any surprises that I have to deal with alone. My H is making all these promises that he will continue to pay for our house until it is sold, that he will continue sending me money every month to pay for bills, but I am afraid that once we are divorced (which I hope doesn't happen) he will just cut me off and there will be no order in place to make him pay me. So I felt I had to get an attorney to protect my best interests. I don't want to fight with him over material things, but I don't want him to leave me high and dry with no financial support.
