So current status- I'm calling a MC first thing tomorrow and getting an appointment as soon as possible. I'll see how it goes after a couple of sessions, and rethink my living arrangements at that time.
You are both going to have to be straight with the mc about the swinging. H does know that, right? Of course, he's ok with it and probably thinks the MC is going to set you straight.
Honey, I pray for you to have the strength to make the very best choices for yourself.
BTW - Anybody that tell you that you have insecurities HAS their own load of insecurities.
And the need for variety is absolute BS.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
