Kara,
thanks.. Yes I have begged cried and pleaded.. oddly I have been telling him for years I am unhappy.. But he has been living away for 1.5 yrs and we were supposidly working on things as best we could during the seperation. Now he is due home and says hes done. of course it seems you realize what you have when you find you have lost it smile So what I am having difficulty with is how do I DB when we arent in the same state? ( see my post on that under newbies.. if you would like to give me some advise!! )

thanks much!


M - 45 1st marriage H - 45 2nd M -T - 14 yrs M - 13 yrs
S - due to job location since 1/08
B - 7/6/2009 EA revealed -9/3/2009 began 6/09 E/A end 9/09
piercing: since 10/09 long distance