Mindy,
I dont know your full story, but I definately understand the distance thing, I am in the south and my husband is in the north due to military station. I am thinking if you are having postive interaction with him you could go and visit? I dont have that option. Mine is angry and DONE so I know if I make the trip he would most likely not even want to see me.. and would be able to make sure he did not.. but if it is an option for you.. Go for it.. Tell him you love him!!


M - 45 1st marriage H - 45 2nd M -T - 14 yrs M - 13 yrs
S - due to job location since 1/08
B - 7/6/2009 EA revealed -9/3/2009 began 6/09 E/A end 9/09
piercing: since 10/09 long distance