Thanks for clarifying. It's hard to let go of having been a couple. It becomes instinct to care about the other's needs, be supportive. I still have to work on getting out of a fog on the few occasions ex have to work as a couple on some issues. It's lucky he sends insulting emails to hasten me back to reality.
Having a plan is great.
Do what you need to do to get through dealing with him at this time. Set your boundaries of how he's allowed in the house, what type of interactions you have with him. You've always had good instincts.
Be the you within. You are so beautiful inside and out, captivating with such quick wit and intelligence. Letting the sunshine emerge brings rainbows amidst the storm.
