ok I have been reading more post and I have definately observed that the men are trying to look within themselves to see what they have and have not done to bring on the WAWs etc. My husband is alot like "BillM" and some others were before the wifes dropped the bomb. I am wondering if I should have become a WAW over the past years, instead of the road I took trying to be logical and "talk" him into realizing that he was hurting the marriage. Over time I have asked for us to get help and have noted what I needed for change..I have never strayed or been disloyal, but became a nagging B witch instead. Now he is done.. so I am think that there is nothing I can do to change it... This is very difficult..
M - 45 1st marriage H - 45 2nd M -T - 14 yrs M - 13 yrs S - due to job location since 1/08 B - 7/6/2009 EA revealed -9/3/2009 began 6/09 E/A end 9/09 piercing: since 10/09 long distance
