Wow Irish! Clearly he's thinking and confused. That lap thing is amazing!

My only advice (like I know wth I am talking about-ha!) is to be very sure of what your standards are for a new relationship. (Either with him or someone else.) Actually, I think the stakes/standards should be higher with him given the OW, etc.

Keep it up, girl- you're doing great!

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing