You're doing great, btw. Just knowing that these uncommunicative S's do turn around gives me hope with my H.
Quote: and a definite 180 for me is to keep my big mouth shut when he did and it worked!!!!
You know I always had problems with this when H talked to me about his son who is now 19, I've know him since he was nine so have seen him grow up. BUT I couldn't keep my big mouth shut and even though I was told to do this by a very good friend, I DIDN'T listen to her. Now I have totally stepped out of the middle of those two as SS is now an adult and will have to deal with his father on his own and H will have to learn to relate to S19 as an adult. I can just be a good listener.
