Thanks, Dia. Do you think cutting off all contact helps? I don't mean going dark. But, I can't completely cut off contact because of our son. My husband stops by at least once a day and calls me sometimes more than once a day too, usually to complain to me that his landline and cell phone connects are terrible. I try to not answer his calls directly and let the voicemail pick up. But our son has been sick, so I've needed to communicate with him.

We had pizza together as a family last Friday. Should I invite him again for this Friday or just wait to see if he asks about it? My IC thinks it's a bad idea to do it again b/c it may be more confusing for our son.

Thanks for reading my posts!


Me 39, H 41
M 17, T 21
Son, 4
Bomb 2.09, Two EAs
Separated 8.4.09
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