In Utter Agony...Long 1st Post

[Dia]

I'm separated too and yes, it sucks. It's cold comfort but GAL, don't pursue and keep DBing.

Keep yourself busy. Do stuff you always wanted to but couldn't when you were both under the same roof. Stop at a new restaurant for dinner after work. Go to a movie without worrying if he'll like it. Reconnect with your girl friends or family that you don't otherwise see. Take up gardening, bellydancing, painting, rock-climbing, etc. Check out your local university for free lectures, movies or other shows. Go to the symphony or visit your local playhouse. Take a book, a baguette and bottle of wine and have a picnic in your local park.

And so on. It does suck less with time.