Stonger, good question. I did put my foot down when I found out and then he left. I thought the book said to keep a low profile with regards to the OW and ignore it - so that is what I have done. I don't think he has had a taste of life without me or without the family really. I'm still pretty accessible and since he is in my home three days a week to take care of the kids - he has it pretty sweet. Things will change next week when he's back at his job full time. The kids don't go to his apt. very much, I assume he doesn't want my eldest to see her things and start asking questions. They don't live together, from what I understand.
As far as OW's husband, the grapevine informed me that he pretty much said, ok see ya later.
Anyway, he had offered to come over to watch the kids tonight so that I may study... but haven't heard from him yet so who knows. Take care and be happy. : )
HIW
HIW M 35 H 37 D 5, D 2 Married 1996 Dating 1992 Met 1988 EA/PA started March 2009 Bomb 6/16/2009 Separated 6/23/2009
