How can you be sure. Isn't there a possibility that now that her affair is out in the open, she feels guilt, and other man from LA might not be willing to take her on full time?
If she were at all worried about being exposed she would not have gone away to begin with.
Originally Posted By: jamesb6402
My plan would be to be lovingly detached, build friendship and give her affair time to self-destruct, but if she moves out my boundary could be - then you don't take any community property, i.e. I don't agree with this and I'm not going to finance it. If you leave then you have to finance furniture, dishes, etc. and you have no more rights to come and go from our house - change locks, etc. If she files for divorce I would contest it.
Thoughts on this?
Sounds good on paper but in reality she can drain your bank account, run up credit jointly and empty your house. All before you even think about protecting yourself. Don't let fear hold you down. Don't fear losing her as that has already happened given what you wrote. You need to get her out of your comfort zone. She has reversed the heat on you. She has you scrambling. Why?
