thank you so much pam for your vote of confidence, sometimes i really feel i ramble on here and i don't make any sense so it's nice to know when i do
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ok, following sages example, i am going to be reading two new books, and then posting my findings here. first is "goodbye to guilt - releaseing fear through forgiveness" by gerald jampolsky and the second is "after the affair" by janis abrahams spring
