I got that a bunch of times. One time we went on a long road trip to attend her nephew's graduation from college, and figured we make a weekend of it. We drove 8 hours and had a fantastic time the whole way up, laughing and joking, eating snacks and just generally having a very good time. This after weeks of avoidance and "I don't love you". We stayed at a hotel, went to the graduation, again having a lot of fun. Afterwards, we found some fun things to do up there, museums, wine tasting, etc. She even reached out to hold my hand!!! I was in heaven! We shopped for things to fill her curio cabinet, etc. Then on the ride home, we laughed and joked again, having a good time well into the night. She held my hand again, in the car for at least an hour while we drove home.
One week later, she says she was "forcing it", that she really didn't feel it, but thought if she pushed herself she could recapture her feelings for me.
That was a huge kick in the chest for me.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.