Yes Undrdg those are his actual words - Always when we have a phone conversation - I have it printed right here next to me...Haven't had a chance to put it in my book and I will be re-reading it a lot I think lol
SD...I am loving having you here...You keep it real as well as inject some humor into it...Thank you for that!
I could really use a glass of wine right about now but I will admit I sure feel better then I did when I came into work this morning.
Since you seem to have a handle on this - Why does he still tell me he loves me? If he is so happy with FT and his new life, why hasn't he filed?
Don't own his crazy will now become my mantra from this day forward.
Thank you again!
((((SD))))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Hi Serenity, I dont think i've posted to you before but i have been following along here. I have to say I am sorry for what you are going thru. some of these last posts here made me laugh. And some of the comments I can totally use. And i think you are right, sometimes you just have to laugh, seeing how ridiculous H is being without him even seeming to notice. Today I was laughing to myself, bc thats all you can do sometimes. And I love the 'Don't own his crazy' line, I am keeping that one.
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09
Im glad you are feeling a bit better now, somedays just completely take it out of ya and then its hard to get back on track. But at least your getting back on track, thats the important part.
Can you imagine what a conversation starter that tattoo would be!
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09
As happened last Monday, hubby just came by here...
Asking all kinds of questions about me, work, the boys, Church etc...
He was here for about 10 minutes and just like last week he got called away but not before planting another one on me along with quite a few I love you's...
I answered him businesslike and in short answers like I was guided to do but the moment his mouth hit mine DAMN (I know Mac I know - I asked for forgivness for the cursing) all bets were off...
Why does he do this now all of a sudden?
I spoke to my SIL and she said "He is seeking you out" not the other way around..."Granted it is a small step but he is coming to you" so whatever I am doing must be working to confuse him and make him rethink what he is doing...
Does this sound about right?
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Yes..it sounds right...though I would like to point out something more as well...what you're doing is working for you - that's what's happening first - and if he comes around, that's kind of a bonus - which is to say, I hope you continue in your hard work - and in taking care of yourself and your children in the healthiest of ways. Just don't allow your progress to hinge on his reactions/responses...keep doing what you're doing...and you'll be fine no matter what the outcome.
