In the 9 months we have had times that were good. Almost like old times. Then "The Bomb" again. I have had at least 5 "I'm done, I can't do this any more, I'm filing, etc" moments after things were going well.

One was just last night. I'm scared to go home and find out if it is real.

I have seen the light! Then it got dark.

I set a year as a "deadline" at one point. Now I just want my sife back. Even if it takes longer.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.