(((T, Michelle))) Thank you so much for your ideas and thoughts.
Michelle, the problem is he either texts or emails, never phones or rarely face-to-face. I thought perhaps I might try calling soon. He hasn't transfered the cat insurance to my name so I thought perhaps instead of emailing I might call. But not for a little while, I don't want to stalk
T, that is a really good plan. I kind of have taken some email mangement steps with him. I changed my email address and told everyone except h, he still uses my old one. Therefore if I check that address it is because I am specifically checking for him so I am mentally prepared and there are no rude shocks. The issue of limiting my computer time is that I am stuck in front of one all day for work and he knows that. I have limited my evening and weekend use though. I'll muse on that though and see if it is workable as it is an excellent idea.
I have a feeling he is building up to something like buying a place with her. I don't want to predict the future but my intuition is telling me that from bits and pieces I am picking up. I could be wrong but it is better I prepare myself for something.
