The Facebook and MySpace pages are brutal. I have had to stop checking my wife's. It was preventing me from detaching. I hated seeing how she had so many people that she liked/got along with...knowing that I, her husband, was not part of this croud.
Just a suggestion, but I would stop checking her page. Nothing good can come from it.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.