GIMA - I have been living my changes only a couple of months. I know it takes time and I mentioned that during our "conversations" this weekend.

You're dead on with all of your advice. I need to do a better job of following it.

Funny thing...with all of the Ups & Downs we have gone through periods of being "back together," (some periods more back together than others) where we were saying ILY, ML, sleeping in same bed, watching movies together etc. I have had some version of "The Bomb" dropped on me no less than 5 times.

It's the good times that have kept me going. Every time we slide though she said that she wasn't feeling the good times though. Bamn! Pow! Right in the gut!

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.