JR,
How's it going?
Sounds like you manage to keep busy and don't let yourself go to dark places too often. Are you getting any kind of T? Just curious.

I'm so glad that you have those neighbors - support from friends can be so vital - and it's also just nice to be able to be with people and not have to talk about what's going on - maybe just give them a quick update - but then get back to living in the moment.

Maybe you should go out some evening(s)...not to meet anyone or anything like that - but just to remember more of who you are. For me, a lot of the post-bomb time was spent rediscovering some of the better things about myself that I had completely lost sight of over the years...I think sometimes it's talked about in terms of remember what it was that your W fell for when you first met - and finding ways to rekindle the best of that in oneself.

-Carlos


Me:39
S3,S13

"We consent to live like sheep." W.H. Auden

On my own
Separation #4