9 months--wow. I am a little over three months now. The boundary that I have in my head is a year of the Limbo. The last couple days haven't been too bad. After this entire mess last week with her saying she wants the divorce, she then invites me to a fundraiser for our anniversary on Aug. 27. I didn't plan on even being around for our anniversary. So I waited a few seconds and light heartedly accepted the invite. She also said she quit her therapist because she was getting led down the divorce path. Sometimes I don't think she knows if she is coming or going.

I find when I act like nothing is wrong, she responds positively. Not sure if it is an act or not. But I am on a record 3 days "acting" happy in front of her.

After 9 months do you see any signs of things improving? Is there any light for you?

Remarried 6 mo
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