The world of Posers is shaken by a real man. You must let your strength show up because the world doesn't have a place for it. Fine. The world's screwed up.
Let people feel the weight of who you are and let them deal with it.
-- From the book 'Wild at Heart'
Stay strong.
Trapt,
Letting people feel the weight of who you are means to just be strong, be WHO YOU ARE and NOT be a Poser. See, the OM is a Poser. Your W is a Poser. YOU are not.
Not be mean. Be solid. The warrior that you are, that all men were meant to be. Think 'Christ Like'. Feeling the 'weight' of who you are is a metaphor for strength.
See, the OM doesn't have a place in his life for dealing with a real man - only other Posers. Your W seems to be trying to make a place for a real man again - and you're the only one she actually KNOWS.