The other man is newly separated himself since Jan. His father is dying of cancer final weeks in the area where they went to high school. I think he is a predator type. I met him 10 years ago at her 20th reunion and he told me "I told my wife I might screw around on this trip." Should have seen my wife's face when I told her that. He lives in LA half a country away. If she does want to move out should I let her take only her personal belongings? What's in the house is joint property and unless we are divorced then...