He's trying to control the situation and you. Expect more of the "I was going to come back, but you did X" type statements.
I have already gotten those statements! "Just as I was letting you back in" or "I was really thinking about coming home..."
Are these good things? I'm trying to give myself a little hope, because I am feeling really down these days. Does this mean he is feeling badly about his decision and thinking about R? Or is this the same BS?