(This is the covetted row of grins...I'd have put in the gopher dance, but I'm not sure how )

Kitty, these are MORE than baby steps!!! These are LEAPS!

These are TANGIBLE signs that your H is "getting it", he IS seeing and appreciating the changes in you, he is SEEING how he's made himself vulnerable to inappropriate R's with women in the past and is TAKING a STAND on that right now!!!

Just a thought...when your H thought you were upset, thought he was to blame (in the wrong way!).....what might have happened if you told him the TRUTH?

"H, it's been such a great day, you've helped fill my love tanks and I feel so close to you that It's all I can do not to jump your bones!"....hmmmm wonder how he'd have taken THAT!

Shiny