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Okay who is assbag? sorry...little behind...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Assbag is the OM.....

Not his.....seeing his OM doesn't bother him.....

K's OM....

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Originally Posted By: LolaL
Okay who is assbag? sorry...little behind...


LOL! He is absolutely nothing Lola.

Frank, I would like to think I showed her strength today.

I get so frustrated and p*ssed at this situation, but whenever it comes time to communicate with her it's different.

I don't have it in me to treat her that way. I just can't.


Don't stand still.
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Ok, Mach, you just made me laugh out loud. And believe me, I needed a laugh.

T, you are chasing your tail, my friend. You are getting yourself worked up before anything even happens. Believe me, I know of what I speak. I do it, too.

Take a few deep breaths. Now, take care of the business that needs taking care of. And take what she says right now with a grain of salt. If you look too deeply into it and what it all means, and how she feels, and what are you going to do.....

Well, you get the picture. Everything will happen as it should. At least that's what Jimbo told me and I am going to believe him right now.

You are going to make yourself crazy if you continue to think like this.

Slow down, get focused, and continue moving forward. Come on now, get to gettin'

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Trapt, just do the opposite of everything I do and you will be just fine.











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Originally Posted By: beginnersmind
Ok, Mach, you just made me laugh out loud. And believe me, I needed a laugh.

T, you are chasing your tail, my friend. You are getting yourself worked up before anything even happens. Believe me, I know of what I speak. I do it, too.

Take a few deep breaths. Now, take care of the business that needs taking care of. And take what she says right now with a grain of salt. If you look too deeply into it and what it all means, and how she feels, and what are you going to do.....

Well, you get the picture. Everything will happen as it should. At least that's what Jimbo told me and I am going to believe him right now.

You are going to make yourself crazy if you continue to think like this.

Slow down, get focused, and continue moving forward. Come on now, get to gettin'


Easy there D. This is why I hate typing. I feel misunderstood at times. I do know what your saying, This was a tad bit different today, but I am doing ok at the moment and things are in perspective.


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Sorry, T, if I misunderstood.

You know I always come from a place of caring. As long as you are doing ok. Its all good.


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Well... sounds like strange things were afoot while I was at Mickey D's with the kiddos. smile Interesting stuff. What up B and Mach?


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
Robert Collier

"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
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No don't apologize.

No worries at all. I do need that reminder, I have the last conversation in perspective.

I have to say it's hard though. Everytime we touch on something new that comes up or is said, it's like I have to lower that guard a little, knowing full well what could happen. If I don't I am going to come off like an ass to her in a way.

This is freakin hard, but I'm ok.


Don't stand still.
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She did get hit with some truth today. I tried to do it in kind but firm way. I'm sure it was a little difficult for her to hear. I have heard this three times recently and it was enough. I was no longer going to let it slide.

She didn't get mad, disagree, or get defensive and at one point even joked about how she no longer gets angry when we talk like this.


Don't stand still.
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