Please give me your comments. Wife came home one day early from this weekend with other man. Said she missed us - daughters, but used the word miss you on the phone message. When I asked why she said other man's father "took a turn for the worse" he has cancer and wasn't to live more than a week or two. I'm thinking if that were the truth I would think she would want to spend more not less time with him? Then she said she would play it be ear because sometimes people rally and last another 2 weeks. So then she is being super nice to me. Whereas before she didn't want to eat with me she make me a favorite meal, favorite beer, sits and eats with me. Conversation about work and kids, smiles with direct eye contact. Then she tells me her sister here is also having problems with her husband and they are in counseling. I say "well at least they are working together on their marriage." Wife says - not necessarily if the sister's husband doesn't go back to counseling. I say "well I meant they are not where we are." Wife knows that I mean she has said all along she wants a divorce and is only agreed to a 90 day in house separation, but says she intends to pursue her affair and even if that doesn't work out other relationships too as part of her journey. They wife says, "Yes I see very slim hope for us." I say "I know what you think and I respect it, but I'm going to work on myself and correcting my problems regardless." Wife smiles warmly and says, "good."
Folks part of me says she is just buttering me up to get through the 90 days and then files for divorce, but another part of me from Divorce Remedy sees this as a positive relationship friendship building and I'm thinking of the case I read where the husband remained an unconditional friend to his wife who even moved out and she pursued another relationship for 4 months, but by his employing divorce busting techniques within 8 months she agreed to date husband, moved back in and they fell in love and are happy.
