Thanks everyone who chimed in with fantastic advice!
undrdg: I would love to be cheery and happy in the email but considering the feud we're having at the moment, I don't think its appropriate or effective, business-like would work best I think. Maybe if we were on ok terms, it would be good but we're not. I really appreciate your input, hopefully I can reach a point with H when I can be cheery and happy with him!
hopeful: thanks for stopping by! I am feeling much better today. The only thing I hate about sending emails to H is waiting for a reponse. It just gets me so anxious but I'm not going to do it this time. If he answers, he answers, if he doesn't..well I'm going to be p*ssed because I NEED THAT HARDDRIVE!! hehe. We'll see what happens. Hopefull he doesn't take that long to respond with a decision .. ** I predict he will choose to send it to me instead of meeting me or having a friend meet him..*** But I'm going to act as if he will meet me, I won't get my hopes up if he doesn't though. I don't want to see him or talk to him, I just want the HD and be on my way.
Mishka: Thanks!! I'm learning from all the great advice you all give me here!
journaling.. packed a bunch of items but no where near close to finishing soon. I have a couple hours before the post office closes. I'm in a bit of a pickle as I cant find some of the items I have posted up for auction!! LOL. I think its all in my huge mess down in the basement. I'm not looking forward to searching for the items in all of that..it'll be a fiasco!
Anyway, it's just getting hotter and hotter and there's no AC in the house. Sweating like a pig right now. So I'm going to send that email to him now and forget that I sent it and not wait for a reply.
OH I have a quick question, he's got our marriage certificate and I need to show some proof of relationship to immigration. I don't have anything, no copy. nothing, what should I do. Should I ask him for a copy of it too?
Me: 25 years young H: 37 No Kids M: almost 3 years (anniv coming up Sept 25th) Together: 4years Bomb: June 12th, 2009
**LOVE WILL FIND A WAY FOR TWO FOOLS IN THE RAIN**