You can search the site by zip code for meetings in the area. They are usually held in churches. It saved my life and I met people there who have become some of my closest friends now. They don't advocate D, they encourage reconcilliation if at all possible but support you through the emotional stages of D. It really is wonderful.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!