He said I don't need him anymore and don't want him to come home.
He's trying to control the situation and you. Expect more of the "I was going to come back, but you did X" type statements.
Yes. It's complete WAS script. My H never said it like that, but his actions and body language sure said it. I was supposed to be all crumpled and devastated, and instead I was living my life. He'd come home to an empty house, and sort of be whiny when I returned. NEVER asked me where I'd been or what I was doing or who I was with, and I never offered.
Your changes and your happiness will irk the alien. They are miserable, moving out and blaming you hasn't made them feel better (or their problems go away), and you have the nerve to be *gasp* functional.
"I'm sorry you feel that way, H, but it's just not true. I am simply taking time to enjoy my friends."
Aliens are a bunch of weirdos.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
