mac-ct I did read her sitch. No disrespect taken. I was just giving my opion. Being serious about this isn't helping her state of mind. SO i figured if you inject some laughter it might help. I dont' see what it will hurt. If he is being manipulative and evil, and you know it, call him on it. Make fun of him. Look at all the pain he is causing serenity anyway. Dont you think she needs a good laugh? But hey, its all good. Different perspectives can't hurt right? Do whatever works, is what DB is all about right?