Or maybe God put the Guy in that grocery store to remind you that you need to refocus. Don't view this experience as a bad thing, it may just be a blessing to your sanity.
Thanks for checking on Girlfromoz. I know what you mean about Newcomers, I was actually over there checking on a long time poster there and was drawn to her. I do believe she should be over here, but this place can be slow when you are new, you know sorta like a high school click and the new student, lol, and she needs to have people just talking right now.
I do think she also has a good shot but she could really make it go either way right now. I know that was not the best place for me simply because the advice was counter intuitive to what has worked but this is a whole different animal here. So time off, name change, and a whole different perspective are what I needed to come back to the boards and post at all.
Anyway, going to check in with FG, you sound good, sorry you ran into OM. I ran into OW 1 five years later and it was just as uncomfortable as you are describing. Guess just how some things are.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
I just tried to call back and didn't get an answer.
Big day tomorrow....Time to pay the piper and it's not going to be pretty. I think that's where most of this crap is coming from right now. Sure, seeing assbag didn't help any either, but I am absolutely dreading tomorrow.
Big day tomorrow....Time to pay the piper and it's not going to be pretty. I think that's where most of this crap is coming from right now. Sure, seeing assbag didn't help any either, but I am absolutely dreading tomorrow.
It's gotta get better.
I'm with ya on tomorrow...I knew it was coming up shortly.
No, seeing him DID NOT do you any good....
You took all that time cleaning out your attic, getting ready for a Garage sale, and you let him move in....
You gotta evict him !!!!
This should in no way shape or form get in your head. Especially with the other things goin on right now....
Focus on what you need to focus on, and let the rest go for now...
What he is and what he represents can only spin you if you let it.
Things are what they are right now, and any positives can be a bonus, but that is it until the universe allows it to happen....
The world of Posers is shaken by a real man. You must let your strength show up because the world doesn't have a place for it. Fine. The world's screwed up.
Let people feel the weight of who you are and let them deal with it.
I don't have a punching bag but I have boxing gloves. I guess to prove I am a good friend I can pretend to be the punching bag. I can stuff my clothes with Charmin to cushion it a little. :-)
Everytime I get this way (frustrated) nothing seems to go as I think it's going to.
I just spoke with her for a half hour. It was good. A LOT was said. We talked about the school and plans for this week, but a whole lot more went down. I'm still trying to take it all in. I'll post later.
