No optimism here, either. I can only think of one possible scenario where he would want to try again.
He has his attorney appointment on Friday. When he gets in there and lays out all of his financials, high salary, 401K, etc etc.....then tells the guy I was a stay-at-home-mom who moved 9 times for his job opportunities, etc etc...
I can see where an attorney might tell him it was in his financial best-interests to try and work it out, esp. since he has a wife who has shown willingness to work it out.
I know back in December, right before Christmas, was when he was sending the cold text messages that we needed to stay together and work it out, that was b/c he found out he couldn't finance his house purchase without me. Then when I figured out that was his only motivation to work it out, that was when I agreed to sign off on the loan. I didn't want that to be the reason he tried again. Because it wouldn't work.
Same thing if he changes his mind because it would save him money...
But I doubt that will happen either. He has made his choice. He will have to live with that choice. And i will be okay. It will just take time.
