Oh wow. That is a rough one beepee. In that case, when you write your email, be confident yet friendly. Use laughter. Everyone is soooo serious around here, given the fact that everyone's situation is dire. That is not lost on me, but everywhere i read I sense fear in everything. Myself included ofcourse. Here is what I would say (from a male perspective ofcourse)
Hey H, Long time no talk. wink! Anyways, just dropping you an email cuz i really need my HD back. I was going to be in the city (whenever) and thought i could just pick it up somewhere. If not you can snail mail it to me. Much appreciated. Take care mystery man.
Or something along those lines. What do you think?